“Fertility Heaven took good care of me and my surrogate needs!”

Surrogacy is an incredible process.

When you apply to our surrogate program, we will review your application and explain the process in depth to you.  Being a surrogate mother is a long process and everyone’s experience is different.  Once you are matched with a family, we will work with you step by step.

You will have all the support you need 7 days a week.

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“This is a very special process because you are carrying a child for another family.”

The Surrogate Mother Application and Evaluation Process

  • Begin by filling out the online surrogate application. This application asks about your medical , pregnancy and employment history. If you are a stay at home mom that is acceptable.

  • If your application is accepted, you will receive a call from our surrogacy coordinator who will gather more information about you, your family and explain the process.

  • We ask for surrogacy documents such as medical records from all previous pregnancies. You will need to contact your OB/GYN and request records be sent to our office.

Matching Gestational Surrogate with Intended Parents

Once you are accepted into our Fertility Heaven family, we discuss information about possible Intended Parents as we build your custom match. Our approach is based on values similar to the parents as well as personal, medical and psychological criteria. When everyone feels right with the selection, we arrange a meeting to discuss all expectations during your surrogacy engagement. This is one of the most important steps in the journey together. You and the intended parents establishing a connection.

Surrogate Mother Medical Work Up

You will be meeting at the IVF clinic with the intended parents’ physician, who will speak with you in detail and perform a surrogacy information assessment. The work up varies from clinic to clinic but will often include:

  • Vaginal ultrasound – a probe is inserted into the vagina enabling the technician to look at your uterus for polyps, scar tissue and lining thickness
  • Physical and pap smear
  • Hysteroscopy – a procedure where a small camera is placed in the uterus to look at the uterine cavity
  • Medical instruction of the IVF cycle, injections, medication use and embryo transfer

Surrogate Mother IVF Cycle

The IVF nurse will give you full instructions and details about the surrogate medications needed, the medical protocol, any restrictions, and expectations during the surrogate mother process. In preparation for your uterus to receive embryos created by the couple:

  • You will most likely be asked to take estrogen and progesterone in either patch, pill, suppository or injection form. You may also be asked to take a birth control pill to regulate and synch your menstrual cycle with the intended mom or egg donor.
  • You will have regular blood draws and ultrasounds to monitor the progress of the cycle.
  • You will have an embryo transfer where a small catheter is inserted into your vagina and through to your uterus. The embryos will be placed through the catheter and into the uterus for anticipated implantation.

Surrogate Mother Pregnancy and Delivery

This pregnancy may be different from your own pregnancies in that it is conceived via In Vitro Fertilization and requires a little more early attention.

  • You may be asked to have your blood drawn, ultrasounds or other procedures far more regularly than with natural pregnancies.
  • There is a possibility of multiples that may require additional office visits, bed rest or other monitoring.
  • This pregnancy is shared with the loving intended parents, and therefore requires ongoing communication about the developing fetus, your health status, needs for support, or other matters.
  • You will be participating in surrogate mother support groups and events that are offered in person and on-line to assure all of your questions are answered and that you have support from other surrogate moms.
  • Delivery is a very special time for all involved. Our mental health professional will meet with both the surrogate and the intended parents to create a birth plan that will attempt to meet everyone’s needs.

Join our Surrogate Program

If you are ready to start this incredible journey to become a surrogate mother, we are here to welcome you to our surrogacy program.

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